Smaller Stomach, Bigger Life
Smaller Stomach, Bigger Life is a straight-talking, compassionate podcast about the real journey with weight loss surgery or life on a GLP-1 Medication.
Hosted by bariatric therapist, and award winning podcast host, Kyla Holley, this show goes beyond the scale to explore mindset, emotions, habits, identity, relationships, and long-term success.
Each episode blends practical guidance, psychological insight, and honest conversations about the wins, the struggles, and the surprises no one warns you about. If you’re preparing for surgery or navigating life years after it, this podcast is your reminder that the goal isn’t just a smaller stomach — it’s a bigger, fuller life.
Kyla Holley was the winner of the Best Psychology Podcast at the Women in Podcasting Awards 2024.
*The content shared on Smaller Stomach, Bigger Life is based on the personal experiences, professional observations, and opinions of the host and any guests. It is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.
Every individual’s medical situation is unique. Listeners should always seek the guidance of their own qualified medical practitioner before making any changes to their health care, diet, exercise, medication, or treatment plan.
Listening to this podcast does not create a therapeutic or clinical relationship with the host. If you have concerns about your physical or mental health, please consult your healthcare provider promptly.
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Episodes

Tuesday Feb 18, 2025
Tuesday Feb 18, 2025
In this episode of "Change Your Relationship With Food," host Kyla Holley explores the longstanding issues with using BMI as an indicator of health. Kyla discusses how BMI, a measure developed for statistical purposes over 200 years ago, fails to account for important factors such as muscle mass, age, race, and fat distribution.
Drawing insights from a recent study conducted by the Lancet Diabetes and Endocrinology Commission, Kyla explains the newly proposed definitions of 'clinical obesity' and 'preclinical obesity.' This study brings fresh perspectives, offering a more nuanced understanding of obesity that includes organ function and day-to-day activity impacts, rather than relying solely on weight.
The episode further delves into the implications of these new definitions for medical practitioners, patients, and public perception. While the new criteria for obesity diagnosis show promise in reducing stigma, Kyla emphasizes the challenges in changing entrenched perceptions among healthcare providers and the general public.
Looking forward to a future where the stigma is diminished, and understanding of health in larger bodies is improved, Kyla remains hopeful about the impact of these changes. Tune in next week for a compelling discussion with Michael Collins on sugar addiction.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
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Tuesday Feb 11, 2025
Tuesday Feb 11, 2025
Join host Kyla Holley as she discusses the path to developing a healthier relationship with food and freeing oneself from the pressures of diet culture. In this episode, Kyla talks with Jamie Wolf, an entrepreneur and advocate for wellness, about her personal journey towards body acceptance and rejecting societal expectations.
Jamie shares her early experiences with body image issues and dieting, and her turning point toward embracing her authentic self. As a mother and founder of Baked as a Cake, she explores the challenges and triumphs of making peace with her body amidst a culture obsessed with weight loss. Discover inspiring insights on mental health, self-care, and the importance of focusing on what truly brings joy and empowerment.
Tune in to hear how Jamie's approach has shifted her perspective, the impact of societal messages on our personal self-worth, and the liberating journey of letting go of diet-driven obsessions. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of finding balance, happiness, and a positive outlook on life without being weighed down by unrealistic ideals.
*We apologise for the sound quality in some sections of this recording. We assume that weather conditions and distance between host and guest affected the internet connection.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
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Jamie Wolf
You can make contact with Jamie here director@beunbreakable.org

Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
In this episode of Change Your Relationship With Food, host Kyla Holley delves into the concept of setting boundaries, focusing on both personal and food-related aspects. She introduces the importance of establishing flexible boundaries rather than stringent rules in one's relationship with food.
Kyla discusses her new mini-course on people-pleasing, a common issue that often leads to compromised boundaries and the loss of one's true self to meet others' expectations. She highlights how this behaviour affects one's life and relationship with food and provides insights on overcoming it. Kyla emphasises mindfulness as a tool to develop a healthier relationship with food, encouraging listeners to tune into their body signals and make conscious eating choices.
The episode offers practical advice on reframing food rules into adaptable boundaries, allowing for personal judgment and flexibility. Kyla also touches on the practice of reviewing menus beforehand to make informed decisions without external influence. She concludes with a reflection on people-pleasing tendencies, urging listeners to assess and address their own compromises in relationships and food habits.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our comprehensive 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
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Tuesday Jan 28, 2025
Tuesday Jan 28, 2025
Welcome to "Change Your Relationship with Food," hosted by Kyla Holley.
In this episode, Kyla invites Parker Nelson, a registered dietitian and author of "Nutrition Nonsense," to explore the myths and biases that cloud our understanding of nutrition.
Parker shares his journey and discusses the impact of social media influencers, deceptive marketing, and the allure of quick fixes on our eating habits. Together, they delve into the psychological aspects of nutrition and strategies for building healthier, more sustainable relationships with food.
Tune in to discover practical tips for overcoming nutrition nonsense and embracing a balanced approach to eating. Plus, learn about Parker's book and how it can guide you to make informed decisions in your dietary journey.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our comprehensive 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
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Parker Nelson
Do you need the Nutrition Nonsense book? Buy from Amazon
Buy from Barnes and Noble
Find Parker on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nutritionadvocate/

Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
Tuesday Jan 21, 2025
Welcome to "Change Your Relationship with Food," hosted by Kyla Holley. With her extensive experience, Kyla provides invaluable guidance to help you break free from the constraints of dieting and form a healthier, more positive relationship with food.
In this episode, Kyla shares insights inspired by a recent therapy session with a client who just six months post-bariatric surgery. Despite being ahead of her weight-loss goals, the client expressed feelings of demotivation and failure due to her chocolate consumption over the holidays. Kyla explores the concept of self-fulfilling prophecies and how our history with diets can cloud our judgment and expectations, leading to unnecessary guilt and setbacks.
Through this engaging conversation, Kyla encourages listeners to reassess their evidence of progress, differentiate facts from emotions, and celebrate achievements, no matter how small. She underscores the importance of eradicating the diet mentality, fostering self-belief, and approaching lifestyle changes with kindness and compassion.
Join Kyla in discovering how to identify and overcome psychological barriers, stay motivated, and maintain a positive trajectory towards lasting change. Don't forget to explore additional resources and tools mentioned in the episode notes that support your journey to transforming your relationship with food.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
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Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
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Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Tuesday Jan 14, 2025
Welcome to 'Change Your Relationship with Food,' hosted by therapist Kyla Holley. Joining her is Hayley Perkins, a passionate advocate for dismantling diet culture and empowering individuals. As they share their personal journeys, discover how life experiences shape our relationship with food and body image.
Hayley recounts her transformative path, tackling emotional eating, diet history, and the deep-seated belief systems formed from childhood. Together, they explore the psychological intricacies linking self-worth and body image, emphasising the importance of addressing emotional and mental well-being alongside physical health.
Dive into a candid conversation about finding freedom beyond the scales, fostering self-compassion, and redefining happiness beyond size or weight. This episode offers valuable insights and practical steps for those ready to embark on their own journey to a healthier, happier relationship with food.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
Then click here https://www.amazon.com.au/Change-Your-Relationship-Journal-Workbook/dp/B0C91KG16R/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10KQQ6XS7PTA9&keywords=change+your+relationship+with+food&qid=1705448202&sprefix=change+your+rela%2Caps%2C241&sr=8-3
Hayley Perkins
Contact Info:
Website https://ifdietsdontwork.co.uk
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/dietsdonotwork/?ref=share_group_link
LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/hayley-perkins-counsellor
Insta https://instagram.com/hayley_food_therapist?igshid=MmIzYWVlNDQ5Yg==

Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
Tuesday Jan 07, 2025
Welcome to Change Your Relationship with Food, hosted by Kyla Holley.
In this New Year special, Kyla reflects on the remarkable journey of the podcast, discussing the exciting plans for the upcoming year, including welcoming more diverse guests with inspiring stories and the idea of creating a community.
Dive into a conversation about the pitfalls of New Year resolutions, particularly those revolving around diet and exercise, while exploring the psychological tactics used by marketers to capitalise on post-holiday guilt. Learn actionable insights into making realistic and sustainable changes, focusing on incremental improvements rather than overwhelming goals. Kyla introduces the concept of making 1% daily improvements towards achieving meaningful life progress.
Join Kyla for this inspiring journey into 2025, aiming to enhance your sense of well-being and life satisfaction.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
Then click here https://www.amazon.com.au/Change-Your-Relationship-Journal-Workbook/dp/B0C91KG16R/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10KQQ6XS7PTA9&keywords=change+your+relationship+with+food&qid=1705448202&sprefix=change+your+rela%2Caps%2C241&sr=8-3

Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
Tuesday Dec 17, 2024
Welcome to Change Your Relationship with Food, hosted by therapist Kyla Holley. As we wrap up the year, join Kyla as she reflects on the remarkable journey and growth of the podcast that began as a New Year's Day idea. Celebrate the achievement of winning the Best Psychology Podcast in the Women in Podcasting Awards and explore how listeners from diverse countries are engaging with the content.
As the festive season approaches, Kyla offers valuable advice on managing holiday pressures related to food, drink, and social expectations. Learn how to identify external and internal pressures, balance indulgence with self-care, and set personal boundaries to avoid post-holiday guilt. Discover practical strategies for enjoying the season without engaging in the detrimental cycle of overindulgence and deprivation.
Looking forward to 2025, Kyla shares exciting plans for upcoming guests and new mini courses aimed at tackling everyday life challenges such as people-pleasing and procrastination. Be sure to tune in for more enriching discussions and to connect with Kyla through the podcast's contact links. Enjoy this season with your loved ones, focusing on meaningful interactions and personal growth.
Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
Then click here https://www.amazon.com.au/Change-Your-Relationship-Journal-Workbook/dp/B0C91KG16R/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10KQQ6XS7PTA9&keywords=change+your+relationship+with+food&qid=1705448202&sprefix=change+your+rela%2Caps%2C241&sr=8-3

Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Welcome to "Change Your Relationship with Food," a podcast dedicated to helping you break free from diet history and foster a healthier relationship with food. Join Kyla Holley, an experienced eating disorder and bariatric therapist, as she explores the complex topic of food addiction, with a special focus on ultra-processed foods, alongside guest Clarissa Kennedy.
Clarissa, a clinical social worker and founder of "Reinvent Your Bliss Point," brings her extensive expertise in addiction recovery and eating disorders. Together, they delve into the seductive nature of ultra-processed foods, their impact on the brain's reward centers, and the challenges faced in overcoming addiction while confronting misconceptions surrounding it.
Throughout the episode, personal stories and professional insights blend to paint a detailed picture of the addictive processes linked to food.
Join the conversation to unveil the nuances of food addiction and find hope and solutions for a more fulfilling life free from the constraints of ultra-processed foods.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
Then click here https://www.amazon.com.au/Change-Your-Relationship-Journal-Workbook/dp/B0C91KG16R/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10KQQ6XS7PTA9&keywords=change+your+relationship+with+food&qid=1705448202&sprefix=change+your+rela%2Caps%2C241&sr=8-3
Clarissa Kennedy
The study we talked about in the interview: https://www.cell.com/cell-metabolism/fulltext/S1550-4131(19)30248-7
Contact Info:
Email: Info@sweetsobriety.ca
Sweet Sobriety: https://www.sweetsobriety.ca
Private Practice: Reinvent Your Bliss Point http://foodaddictionhelp.ca
Podcasts:
Food Junkies Podcast: https://www.foodjunkiespodcast.com
Food Shrinks: https://www.youtube.com/@FoodShrinks/videos
Treatment Audit Clarissa participated in:
Low carbohydrate and psychoeducational programs show promise for the treatment of ultra-processed food addiction
https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychiatry/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2022.1005523/full

Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
In this episode of the award winning podcast "Change Your Relationship with Food," host Kyla Holley delves into the intersection of consumerism and our dietary habits. Kyla explores why we are constantly chasing after the latest products and how the concept of FOMO (fear of missing out) affects our choices.
The discussion extends to planned obsolescence in technology and how similar tactics are employed by food manufacturers to entice us with seemingly indispensable new offerings. Discover how simple foods are transformed into luxury items, complete with captivating stories and premium pricing, and reflect on the pressures of living up to elevated expectations in food experiences.
Kyla encourages listeners to become more mindful consumers, urging them to critically evaluate their purchasing decisions, understand the marketing narratives at play, and embrace authenticity in their personal food stories. Tune in to learn how to reclaim your relationship with food and resist the commercial influences shaping our diets.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
Join our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
Then click here https://www.amazon.com.au/Change-Your-Relationship-Journal-Workbook/dp/B0C91KG16R/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10KQQ6XS7PTA9&keywords=change+your+relationship+with+food&qid=1705448202&sprefix=change+your+rela%2Caps%2C241&sr=8-3

Kyla Holley
Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour
We are on a mission to help individuals break free from the vicious, toxic cycle of dieting and weight regain that simply doesn't work in the long term.
Instead, we focus on fostering a healthier and happier relationship with our body, our food and exercise.
Kyla's personal journey, which includes overcoming childhood trauma, panic attacks, and binge eating disorder, fuels her unwavering commitment to empower other.
With warmth, humour, empathy, and solid expertise at the core of her approach, she will tackle common themes from over 15 years in private practice.
Subscribe today and embark on a life-changing journey towards a healthier mindset, body, and soul.
Kyla x








