Change your Relationship with Food

The Weight of Perception: Challenging Societal Views on Weight Loss and Health

Welcome to Change Your Relationship with Food, the podcast hosted by Kyla Holley, who guides you in breaking free from diet culture and fostering a healthy relationship with food. Don't forget to follow this podcast to stay updated.
In this thought-provoking episode, Kyla dives into the societal perceptions of weight loss and gain, sparked by a weight-centric Facebook post she encountered. She questions why weight loss is celebrated as an achievement while weight gain is often viewed as a failure. Through reflective musings, Kyla explores the pressures and judgments faced by individuals based on their body size.
Using examples such as Oprah Winfrey's public weight loss journey, Kyla highlights the shame and guilt associated with fluctuating weight. She also discusses the unrealistic expectations placed on people to maintain a lower body weight and the unfair societal standards that dictate who deserves to consume a certain number of calories.
Kyla challenges the notion that health can be determined solely by weight and advocates for a more compassionate approach towards individuals of all body sizes. She emphasizes the importance of separating health from weight and urges listeners to be kinder and more understanding.
If you have ideas for future episodes or would like to share your story, please get in touch. Join Kyla again next week for more engaging discussions.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
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Breaking the Stigma: A Journey Through Bariatric Surgery with Kara John

Welcome to Change Your Relationship with Food, the podcast hosted by Kyla Holley, an experienced eating disorder and bariatric therapist. In this episode, Kyla invites Kara John, a counsellor with lived experience, to discuss the realities of bariatric surgery.
Kara shares her personal journey, from the early struggles with dieting and body image to the transformative effects of undergoing bariatric surgery. She offers insights into the emotional and psychological aspects of food relationships and highlights the importance of a supportive care team. Kara's story aims to break the stigma around bariatric surgery and provide valuable information for those considering the procedure.
Tune in to hear about Kara's experiences, the changes in her relationship with food, and her advice for anyone contemplating bariatric surgery. Plus, enjoy a heartfelt moment as Kara shares what her favorite meal would be and who she would share it with.
Don't forget to follow the podcast for more inspiring stories and expert advice.
Find out more about Kara here
Website: www.deeperperspectives.au
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deeperperspectivescounselling
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deeperperspectivescounselling/
 
 
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
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How do you really feel about your body? Let's find out!

Welcome to Change Your Relationship with Food, hosted by Kyla Holley, an experienced eating disorder and bariatric therapist. In this episode, Kyla guides you through a body image questionnaire designed to help you understand and improve how you feel about your body in various situations.
Throughout the episode, Kyla explains how to score your feelings about your appearance in different contexts, such as social gatherings, looking in the mirror, comparing yourself to others, and more. She emphasises the importance of identifying specific scenarios that trigger negative body image thoughts and offers insights on how to address them.
By completing this questionnaire, you can get a baseline score that reflects your current body image and identify areas for improvement. Kyla also shares a personal anecdote about a client who discovered that avoiding the scale helped her feel more positive about her body.
Download the questionnaire and take the first step towards a healthier relationship with your body. Don't forget to follow the podcast and check out Kyla's book and online course for more resources.
Link for the questionaire https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/adteaxi9fb0hzvevav0t3/Body-Image-questions.pdf?rlkey=ntoelujnwemgmuc6y2r8xkbyv&st=243ra9g2&dl=0
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
Take our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
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Unlearning Diet Culture

Welcome to another episode of "Change Your Relationship with Food," hosted by Kyla Holley, an experienced eating disorder and bariatric therapist. This week, we are thrilled to welcome back Mary Pearson, the author of "Weighed Down: Unlearning the Lies Sold to Us About Our Bodies."
Mary discusses her book's release and the creative ways she has been promoting it, from pop culture festivals to mind, body, and soul events. She shares the challenges and rewards of writing and promoting her book, including the positive feedback and the meaningful conversations she's had with readers.
Join us as Mary and Kyla delve into the complex issues of body image, diet culture, and the importance of developing a healthy relationship with food. They also explore the emotional journey of writing and the impact Mary's book aims to have on its readers.
To add a fun twist, Mary describes her favorite meal and who she would love to share it with, offering a heartfelt and unique perspective.
Don't miss this engaging and thought-provoking episode. Follow the podcast to stay updated, and check out the links to Mary's book and other resources mentioned in the episode notes.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
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My Perfect Body: A Journey of Self-Acceptance

In this episode, host Kyla Holley shares a speech she once gave to a room full of women about the concept of having a "perfect body." Drawing from her extensive experience as an eating disorder and bariatric therapist, Kyla explores how our bodies, regardless of societal standards, are perfect for the lives we lead and the experiences we cherish.
Kyla recounts her own journey of self-acceptance, illustrating how her body has enabled her to travel the world, create life, and connect deeply with others. She encourages listeners to shift their focus from physical imperfections to the incredible capabilities of their bodies.
To help foster a more positive outlook, Kyla introduces a simple exercise to increase your positive bias by acknowledging three small achievements each day. This practice aims to enhance self-confidence and appreciation for the everyday victories that often go unnoticed.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
Take our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
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Join Kyla in this heartfelt episode to learn how to celebrate your body and its unique abilities, and discover practical tips for nurturing a healthier relationship with yourself.

Break the Binge

Welcome to Change Your Relationship with Food, the podcast hosted by Kyla Holley, an experienced eating disorder and bariatric therapist. In this episode, we delve into the complexities of binge eating disorder, an often misunderstood and underdiagnosed condition that affects more people than all other eating disorders combined.
Kyla sheds light on what constitutes binge eating disorder, its diagnostic criteria, and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. She discusses the vicious cycle of binging and dieting, and how deprivation can exacerbate the problem.
Listeners will gain insights into the triggers and payoffs of binge eating behavior, and learn about practical strategies to manage and overcome it. Kyla emphasizes the importance of recognising the emotional context behind disordered eating and offers guidance on seeking professional help when needed.
If you've ever struggled with binge eating or want to understand it better, this episode is a must-listen. 
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
Take our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
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The Power of Powerlifting with Kimberley Szeredi

This week, we spotlight Kimberley Szeredi, a sports scientist, strength coach, and eating disorder survivor. Kimberley shares her struggle to recover and how she’s using her experience and passion for powerlifting and sports science to help others develop healthier food and body relationships.
From her struggles with eating disorders since age twelve to her transformation to a healthier lifestyle, Kimberley opens up about her journey. She highlights the role of powerlifting and sports science in her transformation, and the strategies she uses as a strength coach to empower her clients. The episode also delves into the overlooked link between gyms and eating disorders, unraveling worrying behaviors normalised in gym environments. Arm yourself with tips on developing a balanced relationship with food and exercise, and insights into breaking free from unhealthy dietary patterns.
Tune in to hear a heartening story of recovery and the power of finding strength and self-acceptance in unexpected places. From fighting anorexia to powerlifting competitions, Kimberley's journey is proof that it's possible to redefine our relationship with our bodies. She conveys the importance of feeling powerful and capable through sports, while also considering potential pitfalls, like the focus on weight classes for competitions.
Finally, indulge in a light-hearted conversation about Kimberley's favorite Thai meal and the experience of eating. This episode is more than just a podcast - it's a beacon of hope, revealing that freedom, strength, and self-acceptance are attainable for everyone. Join us on this remarkable journey.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
Take our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
 
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
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You can connect with Kimberley Szeredi here https://www.instagram.com/seasalt_and_strength_coaching?igsh=MTRpNmpjNXlnZHpjaw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
and here   https://www.seasaltandfitnesscoaching.com/

Toxic Productivity and Its Impact on Our Health

Welcome to the 'Change Your Relationship with Food' podcast. Hosted by Kyla Holley, this episode tackles a contemporary concern known as 'toxic productivity'. We discuss the severe impact on our physical, mental, and nutritional well-being, and how it has creeped into all aspects of our lives under the influence of 'hustle culture'. We often let this lifestyle compromise our priorities, promoting an unhealthy relationship with food and self-care.
We help you identify signs of toxic productivity, like prolonged working hours, feelings of guilt around inactivity, unrealistic expectations and devaluing self-care. We then explore the dire consequences like anxiety, depression and burnout, leading to an unending cycle of tremendous pressure and inaction.
But it's not all dark and gloomy! We provide ideas on how to escape the clutches of toxic productivity!
You will discover actionable strategies to curb toxic productivity, achieve a practical work-life equilibrium and set realistic goals. We delve into setting SMART goals that allow you to be realistic about your capabilities and prioritise balance over burnout. We discuss the value of integrating breaks into your routine, fostering comfort with idle time.
We address common negative feelings like fears of failure, imposter syndrome, guilt around accomplishment, harmful comparisons, and stress. Moreover, you will learn the essential step of breaking free from technology dependence and reaping the benefits of occasional digital detox.
This episode calls you to work smarter rather than harder, to spot when you're succumbing to unnecessary pressure and to foster healthier relationships with productivity. Above all, we emphasize that mental and physical health should always take precedence.
A companionship journal and workbook can also be found on Amazon. Follow us and stay tuned for more enlightening episodes on leading a balanced, rewarding life.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
Take our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
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Pole dancing towards self-acceptance with Nelly Rose

Join Kyla Holley, as she hosts an insightful discussion with Nelly Rose, a pole dancer, exotic dancer, and co-author of "Weighed Down, Unlearning the Lies Sold to Us About Our Bodies".
Nelly shares her transformational journey from battling body insecurities and disordered eating to finding self-acceptance and comfort in her own skin. With a background in the fitness industry member and an experienced performer, Nellie presents a unique view on body image, the misconstruction of health and fitness, and the crucial role of self-perception in our lives.
Nelly discusses the complex relationship between societal pressures, personal goals, and the unending pursuit of self-love. She dispels misconceptions about the pole dancing and stripping industries, explaining their distinctions and their impact on her self-perception.
Whether you're dealing with food and body image concerns or simply looking to broaden your perspective on these issues, this podcast is a wealth of knowledge and incites deep contemplation about societal norms around health and aesthetics.
The guest unravels her personal struggle with eating disorders, showing how obsessive eating behaviors and excessive exercise camouflaged her caloric shortage. 
Nelly explains how the venture into stripping served as a catalyst in her life, leading her towards liberation from disordered eating mentality. Pole dancing, she says, cultivated not just physical strength and flexibility, but also fostered body positivity and health, inspiring her to value her body not solely for its appearance but for its capabilities.
Nelly serves as a beacon of the increasing acceptance and diversity within the stripping industry, fostering body positivity and underscoring the power of individual transformation.
 
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
You can buy Weighed Down here https://www.crystalleonardi.com/product-page/weighed-down
 
Take our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
 
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
Then click here https://www.amazon.com.au/Change-Your-Relationship-Journal-Workbook/dp/B0C91KG16R/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10KQQ6XS7PTA9&keywords=change+your+relationship+with+food&qid=1705448202&sprefix=change+your+rela%2Caps%2C241&sr=8-3

Gain what you want, without losing anything

Often, Kyla encounters patients referred by their GPs who see weight loss as their ultimate solution to attaining happiness or health. She emphasises that contrary to popular belief, these aspects are not necessarily linked to the number on the scale. Listen in as Kyla unravels the real elements of happiness, health, attractiveness and love. She paints a vivid picture of an ideal life, one that is not intrinsically tied to weight.
Explore as Kyla delves deeper into the motives behind weight loss desires, attempting to understand what individuals feel this alteration will bring them. She also shares practical tips on how to be healthier, happier and more attractive without always focusing on the number on the scale. Learn about steps such as better thinking, eating, resting and movement habits for a  non-restrictive approach to wellness.
Kyla Holley is the Director of the Australian Centre for Eating Behaviour www.acfeb.com
 
Take our 6 week Change your Relationship with Food online course
https://acfeb.thrivecart.com/change-your-relationship-with-food/
 
Need the Change your Relationship with Food journal and workbook?
Then click here https://www.amazon.com.au/Change-Your-Relationship-Journal-Workbook/dp/B0C91KG16R/ref=sr_1_3?crid=10KQQ6XS7PTA9&keywords=change+your+relationship+with+food&qid=1705448202&sprefix=change+your+rela%2Caps%2C241&sr=8-3